Will my body every recover?

I just found out on Thursday that my left shoulder needs to have surgery on it. We knew it needed it, but just not this soon. Hopefully this one will go smoother than the right shoulder did and I can get back to my 'normal' life again. Melanie's been so great through all of this, but I know it's taking it's toll on her. I can never thank her enough or repay her for all that she's done. She truly cares and that's awesome, but at the same time it hurts me to see her hurt so much. All I can do is take care of myself better and not let this kind of thing happen again, which I have promised to do. Which mean no more football, basketball, baseball or softball. I should just stick to weightlifting and golf. Those were always my safe sports.